Penis-in-vagina sex is not the be-all-end-all of sex. Oral sex can be just as pleasurable — if not more so — than penetrative sex. You know whose genital juice tastes like cookies and cream? We all have a taste down there.
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L esbians, ahead of their time, have always known the importance of cunnilingus. But for far too long, cunnilingus was seen as taboo by both heterosexual women and men. Dick-sucking may be par for the course in straight sex—anything for a man's pleasure—but pussy-eating? That is the work of the devil. That time, thank Sappho, is dying, at least in the parts of the world where patriarchy is less inscribed in both culture and law. But treating the vagina like just a warm hole to thrust your dick in is less and less socially acceptable. And so, guys, gals, and assorted nonbinary identities, if you want to be a good lover, you're gonna need to learn to eat puss. The bad news is, as with all sex acts, there isn't one technique that will magically induce orgasm in everyone. The good news is, it doesn't take 10, hours to get good at it.
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Are you a bit confused on how exactly to make your partner get off with oral sex? No worries. How do you know what they like? What do you even do down there? The answers and more ahead.
Illustration by Brandon Bird. The human body, much like the Internet, is a series of tubes. These tubes transport all sorts of liquids: blood, sweat, tears, jizz, cerebrospinal fluid, and pee-pee. These liquids are supposed to stay flowing. Which is probably why the listenership of the Savage Lovecast lost their collective shit when a man wanted tips on how to keep his semen inside his wife's vagina. Or is this something that every woman has to deal with, and I just don't remember prior to marriage because I was either drunk, self-absorbed, whatever? Leaving aside, for the moment, the question of whether this man is still self-absorbed, let's figure this out. How common is it for semen to immediately drip out of the vagina? Fluids are going to drip out of it, regardless of your level of Kegel fitness.
